When Kaitlyn and I got married, she learned to like sci-fi and comics, and I learned to love coffee. We’ve been changing each other from the beginning, as we’ll continue to do so.
God uses your spouse to do some of the deepest, hardest work in your spirit. That’s why it’s so important that husbands and wives are both seeking to love and grow in Christ before anything else. If God isn’t at the center of your marriage, it’s rotten at the core and that rottenness will seep through to the outside.